Sex Advice

Dear Dr. Locker: My girlfriend says her ex-boyfriend was some kind of virtuoso in the sack. What can I do, physically, to boost my performance?

Answer from Dr. Locker

Physically, what can you do? Plug your ears and move your mouth: tell her to never talk about him again. There’s no reason why you ever should have been told about her ex’s sexual prowess, and now you need to forget what you know. Focus on the ways that you and she can please each other by talking with her about what she enjoys with you, not what she liked with anyone else. You are shaping your sex life together. Improve your performance by having fun with her in bed. Don’t make it a threesome by bringing her ex- into your mind every time you’re inside her.

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