Sex Advice

Dear Dr. Locker: How do I ask my partner to try something different, like a new sex position?

Answer from Dr. Locker

Suggesting new activities in bed can add a whole new level of excitement, but be careful: Some partners might interpret your proposal as a sign you're unsatisfied with what you two are currently doing between the sheets. To lay all fears to rest, frame your new request as a compliment. Say, "Our sex life is so great that I feel I can be really open about my desires." Then add your new idea, "…and I've been thinking it would be fun to try ______. What do you think?"

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